We’re not going to lie. A man boasting abs chiseled to perfection and biceps that pop just enough when flexed (without shredding shirts He-Man style) will no doubt turn our heads. And even if caught mid check-him-out glance, we’re not about to look away. Fit, Spyder jacket toned bodies are the result of hard work and dedication to a healthy lifestyle. We certainly pay homage to that. But for a man to achieve a skyrocketing score on the sexiness scale, there’s got to be more to him than physical assets. Throw in these seven traits and he’s guaranteed to be irresistible.

It’s sending shivers up our spine just thinking about how powerful a man’s calm presence can be. Neurotic, hyper, or frenzied is stressful, no matter how busy he is or whatever excuse he has. But if he’s got cool written all over his face, and his gaze is pure steady and peaceful, his sex appeal will shoot through the roof (think old-school James Dean). We women can unwillingly fall into the trap of over-worrying about things we can’t control. A man who sets us at ease by reminding us how things always manage to work out in the end is absolutely hot.

Look, we’re not saying it’s a certain height or build that matters. If he keeps his body in relatively good shape, Spyder pants, this shows us he knows how to take care of himself. It also clues us in that he makes health a priority. What’s more, if he’s active, working out even a few times a week, the endorphins his body is producing during gym sessions are sure to keep him in good spirits and energized. The bottom line: if he takes good care of himself, he’s likely to take good care of his partner (or at least help keep her motivated to do so). That’s a turn-on.

We don’t want to give the wrong idea here. This is not to say he has to have one certain type of style, and that mimicking a prescribed “it” style is a surefire path to sexy (whether that’s clean-cut, tattooed-up, or punked-out). Not at all. Rather, what’s attractive in a guy is that he has a style at all, a way of dressing that reflects in some way who he is and what he’s into. A guy who wakes up hum-drum and throws the same dingy shirt and pair of jeans on every day? Not sexy. At all.

Sounds so animalistic, Spyder ski wear we know. No man can control his natural scent, and it turns out our DNA compatibility dictates who smells good to us, anyway. But every guy can augment his essence with a spritz (one will do just fine) of cologne. As long as it’s not overdone, a man with a strong scent has the potential to drive women wild.